FATNESS SWAG

Hey guys,

 

Hope you all enjoying your weekend. Just wanna share with you my todays outfit and live you with this message. Accepting and loving ones self is very much vital because it gives you satisfaction and peace of mind: ALWAYS!!! This applies to everyone: THICK or THIN. 

 

There's always rules, perceptions and attitudes towards what FAT PEOPLE must or must not wear and that upsets me because why cant we be given freedom of wearing what we feel like and just be accepted as we are instead of being trapped in a box. We are as smart and creative like everyone else breathing in this planet. Why are we treated as if we are just dumb souls who cant make sensible decisions concerning our wardrobes? Who doesn't know that they should look a certain way when in different situations??? Whats more upsetting is the fact that we have limited options and yet have to be told what to do as if things that are being suggested are always within reach. I struggle finding clothes and getting someone telling me what not to wear is just devastating.

 

As a result of all this: We FAT people are expected to look a certain way and if we are non compliant to this then we are regarded TRASHY. Well, you can call me trashy as much as you want - if I feel good and see myself looking great when looking at my mirror - the rest is history. Ofcoz, I would never get out of my house not ensuring I look decent. When people see me around the streets they give me some stares *which I love* :) because many fat people are less confident to spice up their looks to their satisfaction and this is due to media and society that have prisoned them in a boring box. ME on the other side I REFUSE to fall into that trap because I love dressing up. I look around the world of fashion and get inspired to wear what I feel like because is not a crime to do so.

 

I hope this post inspires many FAT WOMEN out there to break the chain of imprisonment and liberate themselves into a great world of style and fashion without doubts and regrets for exploring looks that they have been aspiring to wear.  

 

This is me TODAY and I am LOVING MY OUTFIT :)

 

I haven't worn pants for more than 8 years now because I hated how I looked because I am fat - right now, I am all grown up and understand even though I am fat and struggling to lose this weight I am allowed to wear what I like when I need to: REGARDLESS of my weight. Whilst figuring my way on how to lose this weight, I must not punish myself and not live and lead a positive life I need for myself because not everything is about how much I weigh. So, I am embracing me as I am and people like GarnerStyle, KellieB, the_ms_supa_thickk and others are great examples for many women in my position to do themselves at all times.

 

What are you scared of wearing in public??? When do you think you'll free yourself? Think about that :)

 

 

 

 

 

Jacket: Thrifted

Sweatpant: Woolworths

T-Shirt: Mr Price

Sneakers: Converse

Back Pack: Mr Price

Sunglasses: Tom Ford

Watch: Guess

Bracelets: Pep Stores

Earings: Mr Price

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

Playful me :)

 

Thank you so much for visiting and reading this post - it means a lot to me.  I love hearing from you so please leave your feedback behind. Thank you :)

 

Cheers,

 

Thulie :)

Curves Around the World: Week14 - Floral

Morning, morning my fab readers!

 

Hope all is well with you all. Ever since my last post I have been going through a lot and that definately affected my activeness on this page but I am at least recovered from all of that. So, are you ready for me???

 

You better be :) cause that time of the week has arrived to showcase our Floral Theme for Curves Around the World plus size series. I am wearing my last year bought Asos skater dress and decided to toughen my look with a leather jacket and my yellow Docs. Because my Rock Chic outfit had no leather anything,lol... I have been kinda obsessed with my rock inspired items from my wardrobe ever since my last post! 

 

When you look at my pics Am sure you would be able to tell I had plenty of fun taking all these pictures - my friend Thandiwe Gxono also enjoyed being the camera lady for the day. Thanx, Thandie :) I really love this look cause it screams relaxed and comfortable: I am a sucker for that. So, at the end of the day: it was mission accomplished!!!

 

What colour of florals are you rocking this Spring? I guess I am allowed to say its already Spring as Spring season starts in 3 days from today. The 1st of September is an official day here in South Africa to be considered the start of spring. I am happy for spring but really cant wait for summer, I love wearing relaxed outfits :)

 

Which season do you prefer and why?

Dress: Asos Curve, Jacket: Thrifted, Belt & Stockings: Woolworths, Boots: Dr Martens USA, Earings: Mr Price, Watch: Guess

 

It was windy and my dress was getting blown up my neck - this pic is taken in motion just after pulling the dress down trying to look decent for my pics once again - love love this pic...no clue why???



"Because my Katies Yellow Cardie was closeby when taking pictures I thought I'd take another version of pics with it - I totally think it works perfectly with other items worn: what do you think??"

 

Just the dress on its own with Fossil Slingbag!!!

 

"Dancing in the moonlight, lol"

Please check out my lovely and fabulous friends from around the globe how they have interpreted this week's Floral theme. It would be highly appreciated if you give us all some love and Subscribe, Subscribe and Subscribe.

 

Thank you!!!

 

Helen from England: Everyone Should Sparkle

Kate from Australia: Sparklesandlace

Nina from USA: Curvymod

 

Thank you in advance for visiting and for leaving a feedback for me. As much as I love writing these posts for you - I also love hearing from you as your feedback is what I need to make this page better. So, please leave something behind for me. Thank you!

 

Enjoy your day my fabulous friends :)

 

Thulie :) 

Curves Around The World: WEEK5 - Little Black Dress

Good morning, my gorgeous ladies!!!

 

Hope you are all alright for this weeks theme "LITTLE BLACK DRESS" coz I am over the moon to be writing this post for you. I went thrifting last week and I scored myself this biker leather jacket that screams rock star and fabulosity ofcoz :)

 

Ever since buying it I have been itching to wear it but the weather has been very cold to even try thinking of it as an option but last Sunday the weather was too forgiving and I saw me some chance to finally wear this fab number and showcase it to everyone who loves looking at me whilst I am busy taking care of my business :) 

 

I went to my church meetings with this ensemble and when was out I met up with Thandi my friend for lunch and damn mission was accomplished as this jacket screams LOOK AT ME and I was smiling all the way especially knowing how less of a price I got it for.

 

Back to this weeks business: theme LITTLE BLACK DRESS. This jacket was just perfect to team up with my skater dress and whooala I ended up with a fab outfit :) 

 

I did less accessories as this jacket was loud enough for the entire outfit. Going simply all black made this outfit CHIC and my moms bag took this outfit to another level. Am sure you'll agree with me on this.

 

Obviously, you can pick up from my rambling that I love this outfit and was really pleased of its outcome and compliments received, mostly I was wowed especially looking at these pictures, how about you???  

  

 

 

 

  

  

 

  

 

 

 

  

Dress: Target,  Belt: Woolworths, Jacket: Thrifted, Shoes: Ackermans, Stalkings: ASOS (PrettyPolly),  Bag: raided from moms closet, Bangles: MrPrice, Watch: Guess, Suglasses: Dior  

 

 

 

Please check out my fabulous friends how they have worn their LITTLE BLACK DRESSES and please be nice to all of us by leaving your feedback and surely follow all of us on bloglovin.

 

Thank you so much!!!

 

Nina: Curvy Mod

Helen: Everyone Should Sparkle

Kate: Sparkles And Lace

Laura: Lavish Laura

 

Thank you guys :)

 

Have a fabulous day ahead of you.

 

Cheers!!!

 

Thulie :)