FATNESS SWAG

Hey guys,

 

Hope you all enjoying your weekend. Just wanna share with you my todays outfit and live you with this message. Accepting and loving ones self is very much vital because it gives you satisfaction and peace of mind: ALWAYS!!! This applies to everyone: THICK or THIN. 

 

There's always rules, perceptions and attitudes towards what FAT PEOPLE must or must not wear and that upsets me because why cant we be given freedom of wearing what we feel like and just be accepted as we are instead of being trapped in a box. We are as smart and creative like everyone else breathing in this planet. Why are we treated as if we are just dumb souls who cant make sensible decisions concerning our wardrobes? Who doesn't know that they should look a certain way when in different situations??? Whats more upsetting is the fact that we have limited options and yet have to be told what to do as if things that are being suggested are always within reach. I struggle finding clothes and getting someone telling me what not to wear is just devastating.

 

As a result of all this: We FAT people are expected to look a certain way and if we are non compliant to this then we are regarded TRASHY. Well, you can call me trashy as much as you want - if I feel good and see myself looking great when looking at my mirror - the rest is history. Ofcoz, I would never get out of my house not ensuring I look decent. When people see me around the streets they give me some stares *which I love* :) because many fat people are less confident to spice up their looks to their satisfaction and this is due to media and society that have prisoned them in a boring box. ME on the other side I REFUSE to fall into that trap because I love dressing up. I look around the world of fashion and get inspired to wear what I feel like because is not a crime to do so.

 

I hope this post inspires many FAT WOMEN out there to break the chain of imprisonment and liberate themselves into a great world of style and fashion without doubts and regrets for exploring looks that they have been aspiring to wear.  

 

This is me TODAY and I am LOVING MY OUTFIT :)

 

I haven't worn pants for more than 8 years now because I hated how I looked because I am fat - right now, I am all grown up and understand even though I am fat and struggling to lose this weight I am allowed to wear what I like when I need to: REGARDLESS of my weight. Whilst figuring my way on how to lose this weight, I must not punish myself and not live and lead a positive life I need for myself because not everything is about how much I weigh. So, I am embracing me as I am and people like GarnerStyle, KellieB, the_ms_supa_thickk and others are great examples for many women in my position to do themselves at all times.

 

What are you scared of wearing in public??? When do you think you'll free yourself? Think about that :)

 

 

 

 

 

Jacket: Thrifted

Sweatpant: Woolworths

T-Shirt: Mr Price

Sneakers: Converse

Back Pack: Mr Price

Sunglasses: Tom Ford

Watch: Guess

Bracelets: Pep Stores

Earings: Mr Price

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

Playful me :)

 

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Cheers,

 

Thulie :)

Curves Around the World: Girls Night Out

 

Hello, ladies!!!

 

Girls Night Out - yes, that's the theme for Curves Around the World for this week. I love Girls Night Outs because all they are filled with is happiness, updates about each others lives, naughtiness :) yes, naughtiness - flirting, dancing and glasses of whatever one feels like drinking. I always don't know what to expect when I go out with my friends cause we all have interesting characters - good thing is that when we do go out - We know how to have fun :) 

 

I bought this swing dress from Asos last year and I have worn it twice and when I do wear it, I always wear it with stockings because it is a bit short and the weather is always a bit chilly.

 

Next time when I go out with my girls I am planning to wear this dress without stockings. Its spring and soon will be summer: come on, I cant be burning myself because I have to cover up.

 

I know, I am FAT but seriously sometimes I need a break from everyone and everything reminding me of FAT DONT's!!! Cant one just be free for a day and/or night, really? When it comes to such rules - I totally switch off and shutdown - I become totally rebellious and ensure to prove a point afterwards by challenging myself to show whoever interested that actually, it is ok not to comply.

 

I had a little challenge for myself today - I challenged my self to take pictures with this dress and actually write this post for everyone in the whole world to see that " it actually is ok, to be imperfect sometimes and not be too serious about things and just live and enjoy the moment: cause to be honest few people might notice you anyway - people are busy with their own issues.

 

You can call it justification but I call it self love cause "my fatness doesn't define me instead its part of me" and I am IN CHARGE. Enough about me, your turn :)

 

Whats  you ideal outfit for going out at night with the girls??? 

 

 

 

 

 

Dress: Asos

Bag: Chanel

Shoes: Zando

Earings: Givenchy

Bracelets: Pep Stores

Watch: Guess

 

 

 

Please check out my lovely friends from around the world how they have interpreted this weeks theme - Girls Night Out!!! Don't forget to follow me on Bloglovin, Pinterest, BeauCoo, Tumblr and Instagram. I promise to follow back when you do :)

 

 Helen (England): Everyone Should Sparkle

Aislynn (Denmark): Aislynn's World

Kate (Australia): Sparkles and Lace

Nina (USA): Curvy Mod

 

 

Thank you for popping in and leaving feedback behind for me: I really love hearing from you :)

 

Cheers,

 

Thulie :)

 

OOTD: Yellow Sunshine

Good Evening, guys!

 

The weather still continues to be crappy but its not stopping me to shine through with my yellow clothing pieces. Last week we had a meeting in Queenstown and it was raining cats and dogs on our way there but in the afternoon it was somewhat a different story as the weather changed for the better.

 

On this day I woke up in a good mood and found myself in a dear need to wear yellow items. I could have worn a yellow dress but decided to accessorise my earthy coloured thrifted maxi skirt and boots with a yellow cardie and scarf instead.

 

When the meeting finished I was dog tired as a result I am lucky to even have these few pictures to show you my outfit for that day. I always try to take pictures of my everyday outfits but fail to post them in time because of too much going on in my life currently. I promise to improve in this area though :)

 

I am happy I came across Elle Magazine feature on page 107 - giving nods to the yellow trend seen on international fashion shows by designers like Michael Kors, DKNY etc. It really gave a confirmation that I have a sharp fashion sense :) 

 

If Elle Magazine gives a nod, everyone is happy - like I am at this moment :) :) :)

 

Do you ever wear yellow? How much of it? Would you ever wear yellow from head to toe???   

 

 

Skirt: Thrifted

Cardigan: Truworths

Scarf: Mr Price

Boots: Woolworths

Bag: Coach

Bangle: Lovisa

Turtleneck: Rivers

Earings: Mr Price

 



 

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Cheers,

 

Thulie :)

Curves Around The World: Crop Top

Good Morning, my fabulous friends :)

 

Curves Around the World post has arrived and this weeks theme is CROP TOP. I love crop tops they just suite  my upper body as I have short torso so for me crop tops 

become normal tshirts.

 

The weather has been very bad as a result I have not been able to wear something that's crop top. Today, I am posting an outfit I wore early last week that has a CROP TOP with a front tie that I tucked in. I wore suspenders with this skirt because the waist is big. 

 

I promise to take other pictures when the weather is clear so that you can see a lil bit of skin because with this outfit there is no skin showing as I wore this at work. During weekend I don't mind showing my skin and therefore will take appropriate pictures for you. I like wearing my crop tops with high waisted skirts and or on top of my maxi dresses.

 

I hope this post qualifies for this theme, for now :)

 

How do you wear your CROP TOPS!!!

 

  

Skirt: Thrifted

Top: MrPrice

Suspenders: MrPrice

Neckpiece: FashionWorld

Lace Booties: Jet

Sunglasses: Cotton On

Bracelets : MrPrice, Truworths & Lovisa

Watch: Guess

Earings: Present from a friend



Please check out my lovely friends from around the world how they have interpreted this weeks theme - Crop Top!!! Don't forget to follow me on Bloglovin, Pinterest, BeauCoo, Tumblr and Instagram. I promise to follow back when you do :)

 

 Helen (England): Everyone Should Sparkle

Aislynn (Denmark): Aislynn's World

Kate (Australia): Sparkles and Lace

Nina (USA): Curvy Mod

 

Thank you for popping in and leaving feedback behind for me.

 

Cheers,

 

Thulie :)

Bridal Shower Event

Hey, guys!

 

As promised - here are the pictures of the Bridal Shower Event. Enjoy :)

*Pamela: the fabulous BRIDE*

Introduction of Romance Education: this catalogue has so many useful romance tools - yes, for those in need *winks,lol*

Romance Education in Progress

Stimulation toys introduced, hehehe :)

Big guns for adults, lol :)

 



Big Studded Guns: for those who mean BUSINESS :)

Me & Pam

Feeling the Fur Scarf 

Thick & Fab Queen

With my Special Patchwork Vintage Bag

We played and designed Bridal Gowns and this is Awesome Work!!!

We played and designed Bridal Gowns and this is Awesome Work!!!



Divas in the House (some are not featured in this pic, sorry this is the only pic of us I have):

Beautiful & tipsy heheheeee

 



Food Was Intriguing too :)

Our Surprize for her: look at how her business is hanging our for her Mr to checkout :) 

Some Finger Lunch

Skweezazzz (sisters in law) sitting together with their BRIDE!!!

 

We all had a blast on this day, hopefully yours was much better than ours. Congrats gal :)

 

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Cheers,

 

Thulie :)